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Energy Vampires…How To Deal With Negative People

Posted by on November 23, 2014

Energy Vampires…they may appear innocent on the surface, but if you want to maintain your positive mindset (or get one) then you need to avoid them as much as possible.  Much like the vampires who lurk in dark shadows waiting for a helpless victims, the energy vampires are also out there amongst us and will suck the positive energy from your mind, body and soul leaving you feeling drained and lifeless…if you let them.  Sounds scary, doesn’t it?   😉

Of course…their intention may not be to make you their victim by dragging you down and depleting your positive energy, but unfortunately they do.   We see this a lot in the network marketing industry.  Energy vampires are the ones who say “it can’t be done” or “why don’t you just get a job like everyone else” or “you’ll never make it in your own business.”




What is An Energy Vampire?

I’m glad you asked.  Energy vampires are negative people who tend to leave others around them drained, tired and lethargic. Those energy vampires may be family members, close friends or people you work with.   No matter what you say or how you try to lift them up, it seems they always find a way to counter with a negative opinion. Have you ever noticed that? Like the vampires we see in movies and on TV, negative people seem to be incapable of generating their own positive life force…so they feed off the energy of others.


I don’t know about you, but I like hanging around positive, upbeat people who have goals and dreams and encourage others, even if they happen to be having a bad day themselves. I steer clear of energy vampires and tune their negative comments out when they’re within hearing distance…and I would recommend you do, too.


This is a great quote by John Assaraf and one we should keep in mind…

“I just do not hang around anybody that I don’t want to be with. Period. For me, that’s been a blessing, and I can stay positive. I hang around people who are happy, who are growing, who want to learn, who don’t mind saying sorry or thank you… and [are] having a fun time.”


What You Can Do To Stay Energized and Focused:


1.  Steer clear of those energy vampires…unless they are your family and you have to eat dinner with them.  Otherwise, try to reduce contact with them as much as possible.  ;)


2.  If that doesn’t work, you may have to just eliminate them out of your life altogether. I know…that sounds harsh, but keep in mind that energy vampires hold you down from reaching greater heights since they keep feeding off your energy. It’s been said that you are the average of the 5 people you hang around. If you’re spending time around energy vampires, you’ll soon become negative too, which I’m sure isn’t what you want.


3.  Another thing you can do to stay energized and focused is to dial in and listen to the LIVE “Think and Grow Rich” mastermind call every weekday morning.  I make it a part of my morning ritual every week day morning…and listen while I’m getting dressed and having my coffee.  These calls always start my day out on the right foot and with the right mindset.  It will help you stay energized and help keep the effect of those energy vampires at bay as you plug into the mastermind energy.

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Want to know more about how you can deal with those Energy Vampires?  Check out this book “Energy Vampires – How To Deal With Negative People.“

It just might be the coolest Vampire book you’ll ever read.





Now that you know what Energy Vampires are, I’m sure you’ll be looking over your shoulder…especially on those dark nights when you feel the hair on the back of your neck start to rise.  You’ll know an energy vampire is near.  ;)

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And if you’re tired of the energy-SAPPING vampires in your life and want some new cool friends to hang with…join us.  We’re energy-GIVING entrepreneurs who love to help others and are changing people’s lives in a big way.

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7 Responses to Energy Vampires…How To Deal With Negative People

  1. sumit

    nice to see ur video

  2. Brian and Felicia White

    Outstanding post Ann! Not a fan of energy vampires at all, which is exactly why we have followed your tips and eliminated them from our lives. No time for toxicity or negativity. Life is too short to allow that nonsense. We’re so happy to be connected with you as your positive attitude is contagious and endearing. Thank for you sharing these great tips on how to deal with negative people. Fantastic recommendation to get on the “Think and Grow Rich” morning mastermind call too. Never miss it! Pure gold! You’re awesome and we appreciate you! 🙂

    • Ann Schierling

      Oh, I know you steer clear of energy vampires…just like I do! LOL 😀 The TAGR morning mastermind call is a great way to start the day…and to connect with other uplifting “energy givers” just like you and Brian. I appreciate you guys so much too!

  3. Ray Tamayo

    Great post thanks for sharing.
    Done in excellence .

  4. Paul

    Great info, Ann! Surrounding ourselves with positive, like minded people is better than COFFEE!!!…let the energy sucking vampires feed off their own…

    • Ann Schierling

      LOL…love it, Paul!! 😀 I couldn’t agree more…and thank you for stopping by and commenting.

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